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Pregnant This Spring? Navigating Seasonal Allergies During Pregnancy

Spring is a season of renewal and growth, making it a beautiful time to be expecting a baby. However, for many pregnant women, the arrival of spring also means the return of seasonal allergies. The sneezing, congestion, itchy eyes, and general discomfort of allergies can be challenging enough on their own, but pregnancy adds another layer of complexity when it comes to managing symptoms safely.

If you’re pregnant this spring and dealing with seasonal allergies, you’re not alone. Studies suggest that approximately 20-30% of pregnant women experience allergic rhinitis. The good news is that with the right approach and guidance from your healthcare provider, you can find relief while keeping both you and your baby safe.

Understanding Seasonal Allergies During Pregnancy

Seasonal allergies, also known as allergic rhinitis or hay fever, occur when your immune system overreacts to outdoor allergens like tree pollen, grass pollen, and mold spores. In spring, tree pollen is typically the primary culprit, with oak, birch, cedar, and pine trees releasing massive amounts of pollen into the air.

When you’re pregnant, your body undergoes significant immune system changes to protect your developing baby. These changes can sometimes affect how your body responds to allergens. Some women find their allergy symptoms improve during pregnancy, while others experience worse symptoms or develop new allergies they’ve never had before.

Additionally, pregnancy causes increased blood flow throughout your body, including to the mucous membranes in your nose. This can lead to pregnancy rhinitis, a condition that causes nasal congestion similar to allergies but isn’t related to allergens. Sometimes pregnancy rhinitis and seasonal allergies occur together, making symptoms even more uncomfortable.

Common Spring Allergy Symptoms

Whether you’re a long-time allergy sufferer or experiencing symptoms for the first time during pregnancy, here are the most common signs of seasonal allergies:

  • Sneezing and runny nose
  • Nasal congestion
  • Itchy, watery eyes
  • Scratchy throat
  • Postnasal drip
  • Coughing
  • Fatigue
  • Sinus pressure or headaches

These symptoms can significantly impact your quality of life, affecting your sleep, energy levels, and overall comfort during what should be an exciting time.

Safety Considerations: What You Need to Know

The most important question for pregnant women dealing with allergies is: which treatments are safe? The answer isn’t always straightforward because most medications haven’t been extensively tested in pregnant women for ethical reasons. However, healthcare providers rely on years of clinical experience and available research to guide treatment recommendations.

The general principle is to start with the most conservative, non-medication approaches first, then progress to medications that have the best safety profiles if needed. Always consult your OB/GYN or healthcare provider before taking any medication, even over-the-counter options, during pregnancy.

Safe Non-Medication Strategies

Minimize Exposure to Allergens

The most effective allergy management strategy is avoiding triggers when possible. Here are practical ways to reduce your exposure to spring pollen:

Stay Indoors During Peak Pollen Times: Pollen counts are typically highest in the early morning and on windy days. Check local pollen forecasts and plan outdoor activities accordingly.

Keep Windows Closed: While fresh spring air is tempting, keeping windows closed in your home and car helps prevent pollen from entering your indoor spaces. Use air conditioning instead to stay comfortable.

Shower and Change Clothes After Being Outside: Pollen clings to your hair, skin, and clothing. Showering and changing clothes when you come inside prevents you from spreading allergens throughout your home.

Use a HEPA Filter: High-efficiency particulate air (HEPA) filters can remove pollen and other allergens from indoor air. Consider using a HEPA air purifier in your bedroom to improve sleep quality.

Remove Shoes at the Door: This simple habit prevents tracking pollen and other outdoor allergens into your living spaces.

Nasal Irrigation

Saline nasal rinses or sprays are completely safe during pregnancy and can be remarkably effective for relieving nasal congestion and removing allergens from nasal passages. You can use a neti pot, squeeze bottle, or saline nasal spray several times daily. Always use distilled, sterile, or previously boiled water for nasal irrigation to prevent infection.

Increase Indoor Humidity

Using a humidifier can help keep nasal passages moist and reduce congestion. However, be cautious not to make your home too humid, as excess moisture can promote mold growth, which can worsen allergies.

Stay Hydrated

Drinking plenty of water throughout the day helps thin mucus and keeps your respiratory system functioning optimally. Proper hydration is important during pregnancy, regardless, but it’s especially beneficial when dealing with allergy symptoms.

Elevate Your Head While Sleeping

Propping yourself up with extra pillows can help reduce nighttime congestion and postnasal drip, making it easier to breathe and sleep more comfortably.

Safe Medication Options

When non-medication strategies aren’t providing adequate relief, several medication options are generally considered safe during pregnancy. However, you should always discuss these with your healthcare provider before using them.

Antihistamines

First-generation antihistamines like diphenhydramine (Benadryl) and chlorpheniramine have been used extensively during pregnancy and are generally considered safe, though they can cause drowsiness. Second-generation antihistamines like loratadine (Claritin) and cetirizine (Zyrtec) are also commonly recommended and cause less drowsiness.

Your provider may recommend avoiding antihistamines during the first trimester as an extra precaution, though there’s no strong evidence they cause harm during early pregnancy.

Intranasal Corticosteroids

Nasal steroid sprays like budesonide (Rhinocort) are often considered the safest and most effective option for managing pregnancy-safe allergy symptoms. These medications work locally in the nose with minimal systemic absorption, and budesonide specifically has been well-studied in pregnant women.

Decongestants

Oral decongestants like pseudoephedrine and phenylephrine should generally be avoided during pregnancy, especially in the first trimester, as they may be associated with a slightly increased risk of birth defects. Nasal decongestant sprays like oxymetazoline (Afrin) can be used for a few days if absolutely necessary, but prolonged use can cause rebound congestion.

Medications to Avoid

Certain allergy medications should be avoided during pregnancy:

  • Oral decongestants during the first trimester
  • Combination medications that include decongestants
  • Some prescription allergy medications
  • Allergy shots should not be started during pregnancy, though if you were already receiving them, you may be able to continue under your provider’s supervision

The Impact of Untreated Allergies

While it’s important to be cautious about medication use during pregnancy, it’s equally important to recognize that severe, untreated allergies can also affect your pregnancy. Poor sleep due to congestion can increase fatigue, chronic sinus inflammation may increase the risk of sinus infections, and severe allergies can contribute to asthma symptoms in women with pre-existing asthma.

Managing your allergy symptoms isn’t just about comfort; it’s about maintaining your overall health during pregnancy. When you can breathe easily, sleep well, and feel comfortable, you’re better able to care for yourself and your growing baby.

When to Contact Your Healthcare Provider

You should reach out to your OB/GYN or healthcare provider if:

  • Your allergy symptoms are significantly impacting your quality of life
  • Non-medication strategies aren’t providing adequate relief
  • You develop symptoms of a sinus infection (facial pain, thick green or yellow nasal discharge, fever)
  • You experience any concerning symptoms like difficulty breathing, chest pain, or severe headaches
  • You’re unsure whether a medication is safe to use
  • Your symptoms are affecting your ability to sleep or function normally

Don’t hesitate to ask for help. Your healthcare team wants you to be comfortable and healthy throughout your pregnancy.

Looking Ahead: Preparing for Next Spring

If you’re dealing with difficult allergy symptoms this spring, consider discussing long-term management strategies with your provider for future allergy seasons. For women planning future pregnancies, starting allergy immunotherapy (allergy shots) well before conception can potentially reduce symptoms during pregnancy, though this treatment cannot be initiated once you’re already pregnant.

Finding Relief This Spring

Being pregnant during the spring allergy season doesn’t mean you have to suffer through months of discomfort. By combining allergen avoidance strategies, safe non-medication remedies, and appropriate medications when necessary under your provider’s guidance, you can effectively manage your symptoms and enjoy this special time in your life.

Remember that every pregnancy is unique, and what works for one person may not work for another. Your OB/GYN can help you develop a personalized allergy management plan that considers your specific symptoms, medical history, and stage of pregnancy.

We’re Here to Help You Breathe Easier

At Raleigh OB/GYN, we understand that managing allergies during pregnancy can feel overwhelming. Our compassionate team is here to answer your questions, address your concerns, and help you find safe, effective relief from seasonal allergy symptoms. Don’t let allergies diminish your pregnancy experience this spring. Contact our office today to schedule an appointment and discuss your allergy management options. We’re committed to supporting your health and comfort throughout every stage of your pregnancy journey.

What to Pack in Your Hospital Bag for Labor and Delivery

Preparing for your baby’s arrival is one of the most exciting times in life, but it can also feel overwhelming. Between setting up the nursery, attending appointments, and finalizing your birth plan, packing your hospital bag might fall to the bottom of the list. Still, having a well-packed bag ready to go can make a big difference when the big day arrives.

Whether you are delivering at a hospital or a birth center, knowing what to bring can help you feel more comfortable and confident throughout labor, delivery, and recovery. Below, the Raleigh OB/GYN team shares a comprehensive guide on what to pack for yourself, your baby, and your support person, as well as a few tips on when to start preparing your bag.

When Should You Pack Your Hospital Bag?

Every pregnancy is different, but it is a good idea to start preparing your hospital bag around 34 to 36 weeks. Having it ready by 37 weeks ensures that you are prepared in case your baby decides to arrive earlier than expected.

You might also consider keeping your bag in an easy-to-access place, such as near your front door or already packed in your car. If you live far from the hospital or have a planned induction or cesarean birth, having your bag organized ahead of time can help reduce last-minute stress.

What to Pack for Yourself

Labor and delivery can be physically and emotionally intense, so it helps to have items that make you feel as comfortable and supported as possible. Here are some essentials to include for yourself:

1. Important Documents

Keep these items together in a folder or envelope that you can quickly grab on your way out the door:

  • Photo ID (such as a driver’s license)
  • Insurance card
  • Hospital registration forms
  • Birth plan (if you have one)

Having these ready will make the check-in process smoother, allowing you to focus on what matters most.

2. Comfortable Clothing

While hospitals typically provide a gown, many parents prefer bringing their own items for added comfort. Consider packing:

  • A loose, soft gown or nursing-friendly nightshirt
  • A lightweight robe
  • Warm socks or non-slip slippers
  • A comfortable outfit to wear home (think loose-fitting joggers or maternity leggings and a roomy top)

You will also want to pack plenty of comfortable underwear. The hospital may provide mesh underwear, but many find it helpful to bring high-waisted or disposable underwear for postpartum bleeding.

3. Toiletries and Personal Care Items

After delivery, a shower can make you feel refreshed and more like yourself. Bring travel-sized versions of your essentials, such as:

  • Toothbrush and toothpaste
  • Hairbrush or comb
  • Shampoo and conditioner
  • Body wash or soap
  • Deodorant
  • Lip balm (hospital air can be dry)
  • Hair ties or headbands
  • Lotion or facial moisturizer

If you wear contact lenses or glasses, bring both along just in case. A small mirror and minimal makeup can also help you feel more comfortable for postpartum photos or visits.

4. Labor Comfort Items

Labor can last for many hours, so having comfort tools on hand can help you stay relaxed and focused. Pack:

  • A water bottle with a straw for easy sipping
  • Snacks that are easy to eat and not messy (if your provider allows them during labor)
  • A small blanket or pillow from home for extra comfort
  • Lip balm and breath mints
  • A stress ball or massage roller
  • Music playlist or relaxation app with headphones
  • Warm socks or slippers

Some people also bring essential oils or a heating pad if they find those comforting, but always check hospital policy before bringing plug-in devices.

5. Electronics and Chargers

In today’s digital age, your phone will likely be your main way to communicate and capture memories. Be sure to pack:

  • Phone and charger (a long charging cable is especially useful)
  • Camera or video camera if desired
  • Portable charger or power bank
  • Tablet or e-reader for downtime

It can also be helpful to download a few playlists, meditation tracks, or movies ahead of time since hospital Wi-Fi may not always be reliable.

6. Postpartum Essentials

After birth, you will spend time recovering and learning to care for your baby. Some useful items to include are:

  • Nursing bras or tanks
  • Nipple cream and breast pads
  • Peri bottle (some hospitals provide these)
  • Heavy-flow maternity pads or adult diapers
  • Comfortable slippers or flip-flops for walking around
  • A going-home outfit that is soft and loose

Comfort is key during this stage. Choose breathable fabrics and items that make you feel supported but not restricted.

What to Pack for Baby

Hospitals typically provide many of the essentials for your newborn, including diapers, wipes, swaddle blankets, and a hat. Still, there are a few personal items you will want to bring for your baby’s first days.

1. Going-Home Outfit

Pack one or two soft, comfortable outfits in newborn and 0-3 month sizes. Babies come in all sizes, so having options ensures you are prepared either way. Include a hat and socks if the weather is cool.

2. Blanket

Bring a lightweight blanket for the ride home or for photos. Many parents also bring a special swaddle or blanket for keepsake pictures.

3. Car Seat

This is one of the most important items. The hospital will not let you leave without an approved, properly installed infant car seat. Make sure the seat is installed before your due date and that you know how to adjust the straps for your newborn.

4. Baby Mittens and Socks

Newborns can scratch themselves easily, so mittens and soft socks can help protect their delicate skin.

5. Pediatrician Contact Information

You will need to provide your baby’s doctor’s information before discharge, so keep their name and contact details handy.

What Your Support Person Should Pack

Your partner or support person will also be spending a significant amount of time in the hospital. Encouraging them to bring their own small bag can help make their experience more comfortable. Suggested items include:

  • Comfortable clothes and a sweatshirt
  • Toiletries and deodorant
  • Snacks and drinks
  • A pillow and blanket (some hospitals provide them, but extras can make rest easier)
  • Phone, charger, and entertainment
  • A list of people to contact once the baby arrives

These items ensure that your support person is well-prepared to be present, rested, and focused on you and the baby.

Optional Comforts and Extras

Once you have packed the essentials, you might also consider a few extras that can help make your stay more pleasant:

  • A nursing pillow to help with feeding
  • A small fan if you tend to get warm
  • A few favorite snacks or beverages for after delivery
  • A small gift or card for nurses as a thank-you gesture

While these items are not required, they can help make your hospital stay feel a bit more like home.

What Not to Bring

Hospitals are usually secure, but it is still best to leave valuables at home. Avoid bringing expensive jewelry, large amounts of cash, or unnecessary electronics. Since most hospitals provide these items, you also do not need to bring diapers, wipes, or bottles.

Keep your packing list focused on comfort and convenience. If you forget something, do not worry. Your support person can always bring it later, and most hospitals have gift shops or nearby stores for small necessities.

Final Tips

  • Double-check with your hospital: Some facilities provide more amenities than others, so ask during your prenatal visits what is already available.
  • Label your bags: It helps staff or your partner find things easily.
  • Pack for a short stay but plan for flexibility: Most people spend one to two nights in the hospital after a vaginal delivery or up to three to four nights after a cesarean birth.

Packing your hospital bag is one of the final steps before welcoming your baby, and having it ready can help you feel calm and confident when the time comes. Remember, it is less about packing perfectly and more about bringing what will make you feel most supported and at ease.

If you have any questions about what to expect during labor and delivery or need guidance as you prepare for your baby’s arrival, the Raleigh OB/GYN team is here to help. Please contact our office to speak with our staff or schedule your next prenatal visit.

Flu Shots & Pregnancy: What You Need to Know This Fall

Fall in North Carolina brings crisp mornings, pumpkin-filled porches, and the excitement of the holiday season. Unfortunately, it also signals the arrival of flu season. Between November and March, influenza cases peak, putting expectant mothers and their families at higher risk of illness.

If you are pregnant during flu season, you may be wondering if the flu shot is safe and whether it is really necessary. The short answer is yes. Both the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) and the American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists (ACOG) strongly recommend that all pregnant women receive the flu vaccine, regardless of trimester.

In this guide, we’ll explore everything you need to know about flu shots and pregnancy, including safety, timing, benefits for both you and your baby, and what to do if you get sick despite vaccination.

Is the Flu Shot Safe During Pregnancy?

Yes, the flu shot is safe at any point in pregnancy. The vaccine is made from an inactivated (non-live) form of the influenza virus, which means it cannot give you the flu. This makes it a safe and effective option for protecting both mother and baby.

You should avoid the FluMist nasal spray vaccine, which contains a weakened live virus. While safe for the general population, it is not recommended during pregnancy.

Why Pregnant Women Are at Higher Risk

Pregnancy changes your immune system, heart, and lungs. These natural shifts help support your growing baby, but they also make you more vulnerable to complications from respiratory illnesses like the flu.

If a pregnant woman contracts influenza, she is more likely to experience:

  • Severe illness requiring hospitalization 
  • Pneumonia or bronchitis 
  • Dehydration from fever or vomiting 
  • Preterm labor or delivery complications 

In some cases, the flu can also affect fetal development. A high fever in early pregnancy has been associated with an increased risk of neural tube defects. Protecting yourself with the flu shot helps lower these risks.

Benefits for Your Baby

One of the most powerful reasons to get the flu vaccine while pregnant is that it protects your baby even after birth.

  • Placental antibody transfer: The antibodies your body makes after vaccination cross the placenta, giving your baby passive immunity before birth. 
  • Breastfeeding benefits: If you breastfeed, you pass additional antibodies through your milk, extending protection in the first months of life. 
  • Bridging the gap: Babies cannot receive their own flu vaccine until six months old, which leaves them vulnerable during their earliest months. Maternal vaccination fills that gap. 

Research shows that babies whose mothers received the flu vaccine during pregnancy are less likely to be hospitalized with influenza in their first year.

When Is the Best Time to Get the Flu Shot?

The CDC recommends that everyone six months and older get a flu vaccine each year, ideally by the end of October. For pregnant women, the timing is flexible — you can safely get the shot in any trimester.

  • Early fall (September–October): Best for getting protection before peak flu season. 
  • Later in pregnancy: Still beneficial, even if you are close to your due date. Your baby will still receive antibodies. 

If you miss the early fall window, it is not too late. Flu season often continues into spring, and vaccination remains valuable throughout.

What If You Still Get the Flu While Pregnant?

The flu shot is highly effective at preventing illness, but it is not perfect. Some women may still contract the flu, though symptoms are often milder and complications less severe if vaccinated.

If you develop symptoms such as fever, chills, cough, or body aches, contact your OB/GYN right away. Prompt treatment is especially important during pregnancy.

Your provider may prescribe an antiviral medication such as oseltamivir (Tamiflu). Antivirals work best within 48 hours of symptom onset and can reduce the severity and duration of illness.

Important: Do not try to self-treat with over-the-counter medications before checking with your OB/GYN. Many cold and flu remedies contain ingredients that may not be safe during pregnancy.

Additional Ways to Protect Yourself During Flu Season

In addition to getting the flu shot, there are simple steps you can take to lower your risk of illness:

  • Wash your hands often with soap and water. 
  • Avoid close contact with anyone who is sick. 
  • Clean and disinfect frequently touched surfaces in your home and workplace. 
  • Prioritize rest, hydration, and nutrition to keep your immune system strong. 
  • Encourage household members and caregivers to get vaccinated. 

When your partner, children, and coworkers are also vaccinated, it creates a protective barrier around you and your baby.

Common Concerns About the Flu Shot and Pregnancy

Will the flu shot make me sick?

No. The inactivated flu vaccine does not cause influenza. Some women may experience mild side effects such as soreness at the injection site, low-grade fever, or muscle aches, but these usually resolve within a day or two.

Can I get the flu shot if I have allergies?

Most women with mild egg allergies can safely receive the flu vaccine. If you have a history of severe allergic reactions, talk with your provider about your options.

Is it safe if I am breastfeeding?

Yes. The flu vaccine is safe while breastfeeding and provides an added layer of protection for your baby through antibody transfer.

Why Flu Shots Matter More in a Post-Pandemic World

Since the COVID-19 pandemic, healthcare providers have emphasized the importance of vaccination to prevent overlapping respiratory illnesses. Contracting both the flu and COVID-19 at the same time can be especially dangerous during pregnancy.

Getting the flu shot is one way to reduce strain on your immune system and prevent severe outcomes. Some providers may also recommend staying current on COVID-19 boosters alongside your flu shot for maximum protection.

Where to Get Your Flu Shot in Raleigh

You can request your flu vaccine at your next prenatal appointment with Raleigh OB/GYN for convenience. Many pharmacies and clinics also offer flu shots, but receiving it through your OB/GYN ensures it is documented in your prenatal records and any questions can be addressed on the spot.

The earlier in the season you get vaccinated, the more protected you and your baby will be.

Final Thoughts

Pregnancy is an exciting journey, and protecting your health is one of the best gifts you can give your baby. The flu shot is a safe and effective way to reduce your risk of serious illness while providing your newborn with early immunity.

This fall, talk with your Raleigh OB/GYN provider about getting vaccinated and encourage those around you to do the same. Together, these steps create a healthy, supportive environment for both you and your growing family.

Third Trimester Checklist: What to Prep Before Baby Arrives

You’ve made it to the home stretch! The third trimester, weeks 28 through delivery, is an exciting, emotional, and sometimes overwhelming. As your due date approaches, it’s common to feel like there’s a lot to do and not enough time. That’s where a third-trimester checklist can help. With some planning and preparation, you can enter labor feeling more confident, organized, and ready to welcome your little one into the world.

At Raleigh OB/GYN, our goal is to support you every step of the way. Here’s a comprehensive checklist to help guide your third trimester and prepare for baby’s arrival.

1. Finalize Your Birth Plan

While labor and delivery don’t always go according to plan, writing a birth plan can help you think through your preferences and communicate them clearly to your care team. Consider:

  • Pain relief preferences (epidural, natural, nitrous oxide, etc.) 
  • Who you want in the room with you 
  • Preferences for labor positions, lighting, and music 
  • Preferences for immediate skin-to-skin contact 
  • Delayed cord clamping 
  • Feeding plans (breastfeeding, formula, both) 

Bring a copy to your next appointment and discuss your wishes with your OB provider. Flexibility is key, but having a plan can help you feel more prepared.

2. Take a Hospital Tour (or Virtual Tour)

Knowing what to expect at the hospital can ease anxiety and help you feel more in control. Many hospitals offer in-person or virtual tours of their labor and delivery units. During the tour, you’ll learn:

  • Where to check in 
  • What items are provided 
  • What amenities are available 
  • Visitor policies 
  • Parking details 

You can also ask about what you’ll need to bring and what is already provided by the hospital.

3. Pack Your Hospital Bag

You don’t want to be scrambling to pack during contractions. A well-stocked hospital bag should include:

For Mom:

  • Comfortable clothes or nursing gown 
  • Maternity bra and nursing pads 
  • Toiletries (toothbrush, lip balm, hairbrush, etc.) 
  • Phone charger 
  • Snacks and a water bottle 
  • ID and insurance card 

For Baby:

  • Going-home outfit 
  • Swaddle blanket 
  • Diapers and wipes (though many are provided by the hospital) 
  • Pediatrician contact information 

For Partner:

  • Change of clothes 
  • Toiletries 
  • Snacks or drinks 
  • Camera or phone for photos 

4. Prep the Nursery

Now’s the time to ensure your baby’s safe and ready sleeping space. Your nursery doesn’t have to be Pinterest-perfect- it just needs to be functional and cozy. Focus on:

  • A safe sleep space (crib or bassinet that meets current safety standards) 
  • Clean bedding (fitted sheets only, no blankets or toys) 
  • Diapers, wipes, and a changing station 
  • A diaper pail 
  • Clothing basics: onesies, sleepers, socks, and hats 
  • Nightlight for late-night feedings 

Pro tip: Set up a nursing or feeding station with a comfortable chair, burp cloths, and water for you.

5. Install the Car Seat

One of the most essential third-trimester to-dos is installing your infant car seat. You won’t be able to leave the hospital without one properly installed. Follow the manufacturer’s instructions, or attend a car seat safety check near you. Many fire stations and hospitals offer free inspections.

Remember: infants should be rear-facing in the back seat.

6. Wash Baby Clothes and Gear

Your baby’s brand-new skin is extra sensitive. It’s a good idea to wash all clothing, bedding, and even soft toys in a gentle, fragrance-free detergent before use. Focus on:

  • Clothes in newborn and 0–3 month sizes 
  • Swaddles and blankets 
  • Bibs and burp cloths 
  • Washable car seat and stroller covers 

7. Take Prenatal Classes

Whether it’s your first or fourth baby, a refresher on childbirth and newborn care can help you feel more prepared. Look into:

  • Childbirth education 
  • Breastfeeding basics 
  • Infant CPR and safety 
  • Newborn care and soothing techniques 
  • Postpartum recovery 

These classes are often available through your hospital, community center, or online. Your Raleigh OB/GYN provider can also help connect you with resources.

8. Line Up Support

Preparing emotionally and mentally is just as important as preparing physically. Reach out to friends, family, or a postpartum doula for support after the baby arrives. Think through:

  • Who can help with meals, cleaning, or errands 
  • Who will be your emergency contact 
  • Who will watch older children or pets during labor 
  • Who can you talk to if you feel overwhelmed or anxious 

9. Prep for Postpartum

While much of the focus is on the baby, your recovery matters too. Stock up on supplies you’ll need for healing at home, including:

  • Pads or adult diapers 
  • Witch hazel pads or spray 
  • Peri bottle 
  • Epsom salt for sitz baths 
  • Nursing pads and nipple balm (if breastfeeding) 
  • Comfortable postpartum clothing 

Setting up a little station in your bathroom with these items is also helpful so everything is easily accessible.

10. Freeze Meals and Stock the Pantry

Cooking becomes a challenge with a newborn. Make things easier on yourself by:

  • Preparing and freezing meals in advance 
  • Stocking up on easy snacks (protein bars, trail mix, fruit) 
  • Making a list of takeout spots or meal delivery services 
  • Plenty of paper products (paper towels, toilet paper, etc.) 

Even better: ask family and friends to contribute to a meal train after the baby arrives!

11. Review Your Maternity Leave and Benefits

Take time to finalize your plans with work and understand your benefits. Be sure to:

  • Confirm your maternity leave start date 
  • Review FMLA (Family and Medical Leave Act) eligibility 
  • Understand your insurance coverage for delivery and baby care 
  • Look into adding your baby to your insurance plan after birth 

12. Attend All Prenatal Appointments

During your third trimester, your provider will want to see you more frequently, usually every two weeks, then weekly starting at 36 weeks. These appointments are important for monitoring your baby’s growth and your overall health.

You may also receive Group B Strep testing between weeks 35–37 and discuss scheduling an induction if needed.

13. Rest and Practice Self-Care

Your body is working hard. Don’t forget to:

  • Get plenty of rest 
  • Stay hydrated 
  • Stretch or take walks if you’re able 
  • Try prenatal yoga or meditation 
  • Take naps when needed 

Remember, it’s okay to slow down. Listen to your body and take breaks.

14. Know the Signs of Labor

Finally, familiarize yourself with signs that labor may be starting:

  • Regular, intensifying contractions 
  • Water breaking (a gush or trickle of fluid) 
  • Low back pain or pelvic pressure 
  • Bloody show (mucus tinged with blood) 

Don’t hesitate to call your provider if you think you’re in labor or if you feel something isn’t right.

Final Thoughts

The third trimester is a time of anticipation, preparation, and big emotions. While the checklist may seem long, take it one step at a time, and remember, you don’t have to do everything perfectly. Most importantly, you feel as ready and supported as possible when it’s time to meet your baby.

At Raleigh OB/GYN, we’re honored to walk you through this journey. Please contact our team if you have any questions or need help preparing for labor and delivery. We’re here for you every step of the way.

Ready to schedule your next appointment? Contact us today, we’re here to support you through every trimester and beyond.

Fun Things to Do While Pregnant with Friends

Pregnancy is an exciting time, and while it comes with its fair share of challenges, it’s also a wonderful opportunity to spend quality time with friends before the baby arrives. Whether you’re looking for fun things to enjoy with your besties or just searching for a fun and exciting way to stay active and entertained, there are plenty of options. From relaxing experiences to adventurous outings, here are some fantastic ways to maximize your pregnancy journey while enjoying time with your friends.

1. Have a Movie Night

A movie night is great for pregnant women looking for a relaxing day with friends. Grab your favorite snacks, cozy up with some pillows, and enjoy a marathon of your favorite films. Whether it’s a chick flick, a classic comedy, or an inspiring documentary, spending time together in this way is a fun and stress-free way to bond. Plus, it’s a wonderful way to take a break from the physical demands of pregnancy.

2. Take a Prenatal Yoga Class

A prenatal yoga class is a fun way to stay active and a great way to relieve pregnancy hormones and promote well-being. Many local venues offer classes specifically for pregnant people, focusing on gentle exercise that helps with flexibility, relaxation, and preparing for childbirth. Invite your friends for extra support, even if they aren’t expecting it—many yoga studios welcome all participants!

3. Plan a Spa Day

A spa day is a much-needed relaxation experience for expectant parents. Treat yourself to a prenatal massage, which can help relieve stress and promote circulation, or enjoy a couple’s massage with your partner. Many spas offer pregnancy-safe treatments that cater to the unique needs of pregnant women, making this a wonderful way to pamper yourself while spending quality time with loved ones.

4. Enjoy an Ice Cream Date

Indulging in delicious food is one of the simple pleasures of pregnancy, and an ice cream date with friends is a fun way to satisfy cravings. Head to your favorite local spot and sample different flavors while catching up. Whether you’re in the first trimester or the third trimester, an ice cream outing is always a delightful treat!

5. Take a Cooking Class

Develop your culinary skills with a cooking class! It’s a fun activity that allows you to learn new recipes and bond with friends. Opt for a class that focuses on healthy pregnancy-friendly meals so you can pick up nutritious and delicious food ideas for your pregnancy.

6. Have a Game Night

A game night is a fun way to spend quality time with friends while keeping things low-key. Choose from board games, card games, or trivia to keep the energy high. It’s a wonderful way to stay engaged and entertained while avoiding the exhaustion that can come with pregnancy.

7. Take a Dance Class

If you’re looking for a fun way to stay active, consider signing up for a dance class! Many studios offer classes tailored to pregnant couples, allowing you and your partner—or your friends—to move in a safe and enjoyable way. Dancing is a fantastic way to exercise moderately while boosting your mood.

8. Visit a Local Comedy Club

Laughter is the best medicine, and a night out at a local comedy club is an excellent way to spend time with friends and relieve stress. Enjoy some non-alcoholic beverages while laughing the night away—because pregnancy hormones can make everything even funnier!

9. Plan a Picnic at a Local Orchard or Park

Spending time outdoors and getting fresh air is essential during pregnancy. Organize a picnic at a local orchard or park and enjoy a relaxing afternoon with friends. Pack pregnancy-friendly snacks, bring a comfy blanket, and soak up nature while enjoying good company.

10. Have a Photoshoot with a Professional Photographer

Capture special moments with a maternity photoshoot! Documenting your pregnancy journey and creating lasting memories is a great idea. Invite your friends to join for a fun and creative shoot, or keep it intimate with just you and your baby bump.

11. Take a Pottery Class

Unleash your creative side by signing up for a pottery class. It’s a relaxing and therapeutic activity that allows you to make something special—perhaps even a keepsake for your baby’s nursery. Plus, working with clay is a wonderful way to de-stress and express your artistic side.

12. Write Letters to Your Unborn Baby

A heartfelt and meaningful activity is to write letters to your unborn baby. This is a beautiful way to reflect on your pregnancy journey and share your thoughts and dreams. You can even ask your friends to write letters as well, creating a special keepsake for your little one to read in the future.

13. Attend a Birthing Class Together

If you and your friends are pregnant simultaneously, attending a birthing class together is a wonderful way to prepare for giving birth while bonding. Even if they’re not expecting, friends can join to provide extra support and learn how to be there for you in the first few weeks after delivery.

14. Plan a Baby Shower or Sprinkle

A baby shower is a fun and exciting way to celebrate your pregnancy with friends and family. If this isn’t your first baby, consider having a baby sprinkle—a smaller, more intimate gathering to welcome your new addition. Let your friends help plan to make it a stress-free and joyful event.

15. Go on a Fun Date with Your Partner

Don’t forget to include your significant other in the fun! Plan fun dates like a relaxing dinner, a scenic walk, or a couple’s massage. Spending time together before your due date is a great way to connect and cherish your time as a duo before welcoming your little one.

Final Thoughts

Pregnancy is a truly special time, and finding fun activities to enjoy with friends can make the experience even more memorable. Whether you’re looking for a relaxing day, a fun date idea, or an exciting adventure, there are plenty of ways to spend quality time and create unforgettable memories before your baby arrives. So grab your besties and start planning—because pregnancy should be just as much about joy, laughter, and togetherness as it is about preparing for your little one!